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Our Articles:
Are GLBT
Breakups Harder than Straight Breakups?
We've all heard the saying: "Breaking up is
hard to do." But what happens when a breakup takes place in the GLBT community?
Are these breakups harder and more traumatic for those involved than they
are for couples in the straight community? The answer is a resounding
yes...more>
The First Five Days: Dealing With Your
Lesbian Breakup
The first five days after a break up may seem
like the worst days of your life, especially if the breakup was unexpected
or you were together a long time. If you have given you heart to someone,
the second they give it right back to you you cannot be expected to automatically
bounce back up and jump into the dating game. These things take time.
Lots of
time!...more>
Preventing Lesbian Breakup Depression
It can be difficult to get your life back together
after a break up. It will take time for the pain to go away. It will take
time to heal. Your first reaction may be anger; disbelief; grief; or sadness.
Depending on the breakup circumstances you could feel a mix of these emotions.
The problem is, if these emotions continue to fester they may lead to more
serious, depressive
emotions...more>
How to Let Go After Your Lesbian Breakup
Breaking up is hard to do. There is no easy
way to say goodbye to the one you believed you'd be with forever. If it is
meant to be, though, then it is meant to be. It's sometimes best if you remain
friends. Other times remaining friends isn't the wisest choice. Either way
if at all possible, you should try to cut your losses, let them go and give
them back to themselves, and move on with your
life...more>
Handling Lesbian Break Up Loneliness
A relationship is not the end-all be-all of
life! We all experience moments of loneliness, whether we are in a loving
relationship or not. It is simply an emptiness that comes from deep inside
of us and it originates from not being able to truly understand and know
ourselves. It is this depression that makes us aware of our own weakness
as human beings. We do not need to justify our existence through our
relationships, but we often do not know any other way. The key is to be happy
with ourselves in - and out - of a relationship. If we cannot be satisfied
and accepting of ourselves when we are not in a relationship, then no gal
is ever going to want to be involved with us. Insecurity is often a turnoff,
and we have to learn to love ourselves before we can gain the love of
others...more>
How to Get
Your Lover Back
Is it over? I mean, is it really, really over?
Yeah of course your friends are telling you to move on, that you can do better
than your ex. But they don't know him like you do. He understood you, he
loved you like no one else ever dared, and you took him home to meet Mom
and Dad on Thanksgiving. Wouldn't it just prove to your parents that gay
relationships are transient and unstable if you showed up for Christmas without
your latest beau in tow?...more>
Depression and Relationships - Can You
Handle Both?
Even though depression has existed for quite
some time in the gay community, it has recently become more and more a common
problem among gays. Depression can take over your life, allowing you to focus
only on your feelings of hopelessness rather than on your family, friends,
work, and even your relationship. When you are dating the man of your dreams
it is important you discuss your depression so he knows if you get in a
depressive funk he should not take it
personal...more>
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